Hi Anonymous,There were quite a few times, but the worst was probably during an excursion in my second year of high school. Going unnoticed at school or out places on the weekend made me feel like I was in control of my situation, but it also made it a lot worse. Other kids would notice and grass to the teacher when Id pooed my pants, but I dont remember being bullied for it. I was found out twice and the rest of the time I either managed to hide it or if I was worried Id be found out I made an excuse to the nurse that I was ill and was always allowed to go home. I'll never forget the girl who pooped herself while running in remote Cambodia or the guy who had to find a plastic bag to go in on the side of the highway (guess that's better than pooping your pants). I remember going home that day feeling better than I had in a long time but couldnt tell anyone why. One time, I pooped in my underwear during gym class, and left them in a bag in the locker room and forgot to dispose of them. I wonder if maybe she did it once as an accident then felt your reaction and continued to do it..is she testing and pushing limits in other ways??? When you can't soak up any more moisture with paper towels, try using the hand dryer. Interesting.. and you wonder why she doesn't want to tell you when it happens? I don't think you were being silly, like you I frequently soiled my pants at home while engrossed in playing some solitary game. Only really bad incident I remember was in year 6 when we had a supply teacher. When I got back to class, he had opened all the windows and was sitting at his desk giving me a serious look. The fairly small back garden had no grass, few flowers and mostly Get her to the doctor. Not wanting to stop what I was doing. Lack of understanding from my mother.My mother thought I was doing it intentionally and took the out of site out of mind approach. I did not find pooey pants particularly uncomfortable physically as I got used to the feeling of them, and being discovered brought a sense of dread more than relief, as I knew that I was about to be told off and suffer the humiliation of being changed like a toddler. Everything was ok for the first couple of day until I realized I was very constipated and no matter how hard I tried nothing came out. For endurance athletes, youre shunting blood away from the intestines and towards the muscle mass. 3) My need to go has increased substantially. There are so many similarities with yourself and others. normally what would happen is, i would get the urge to go for a poo so i would withold. She would often be understandably disgusted with me and tell me she could smell me and "knew what I'd done" etc, and threaten to put me back in nappies. like you i loved playing on my own and the majority of my time was spent in my room on my own playing with lego, pokeman cards, knex, or toy cars. Sort by: Hot. my pants were messy. If I didnt take the opportunity to go to the toilet it seemed like my body worked against me. There was a toilet block not far from where we were so I walked there and went in but that was all. She told me she had the same problem when she was my age and did it just as much as me. (: Show more Show more 12 Hours of Relaxing Sleep Music for Stress Relief,. Peed my pink Calvin Klein in the bathtub this morning. When I had finished I resumed Anytime I encounter "evidence", I just show them to her, tell her I don't clean up poop, then throw them away. ^ Not me. I was far too cornered with my personal hygiene even as a baby. That was only around 930am and we hadnt even finished the first of a full day of events, we were also going to a BBQ that afternoon at one of the relatives houses. she's barely 5, had a fairly common 'accident', and got grilled and shamed over it. how many other people apart from your mum and family knew about your poo problem? I too could be happy playing alone with nothing. Well, finally the GI tested her..she was extremely constipated. The issue only really stopped for me when I started Uni at 19 as I absolutely did not want the issue of bedwetting and pants pooping to follow me. So when you pooped yourself in school, you had to just wear your underwear? I think I would let her know you are PO'd, she is NOT acting like a big girl so she loses whatever her big girl privileges are, and she is gonna have to clean it up and/or lose her underwear. I took a "sportsman's chance" hoping it . I agree, habits can be very hard to break. I thought the same thing for months and months of my daughter getting UTIs. Gym are at sundays evenings very quiet and usually Im been alone in there. In my case, I'm sure it wouldn't have been too long before someone was pulling back the waistband of my underwear! My parents thought I was lazy or doing it on purpose and going to great lengths to hide it only confirmed their belief. I always denied in class and at home that Id had an accident and regularly had my pants pulled down / waistband pulled back to check. Even then it was a difficult habit to break, and I think its the same for withholding. Just hang in there & be kind when dealing with this. That gave me the confidence I was going to be ok but the problem with that was I stopped thinking about what I was doing. When I was doing exercise, I strained and heard crackling sound under my sweatpants when poop pushed into my pants. Kids go through all First take her to the pediatrician & have hey check my profile out and read all my posts. Get a sweater to wrap around your pants, a long skirt or a change of clothes. As I said before, it sounds strange but keeping it secret made me feel in control and kind of proud of myself. toilet training too early . This is the second three-day period in which he decided to quit using the potty. This was the 1970 and 80s and very few people had heard of encopresis. My teacher saw me walking funny and jokingly asked if I had made a load in my pants. Has anyone pooped or peed their pants on purpose, and is it okay to do it? The longer the better! I was only a few metres from the toilet, but And if you're going to yell at her, of COURSE she's going to deny/pretend. I was small for my age and a late bloomer which probably contributed to this. Peppa Poops On Her Teacher( New Grounded Series) Peppa Pig Poop. Letting it come out in my underwear when it wanted to worked because it didnt hurt, so that became normal. The medical side of my soiling was never discussed and it was assumed that I was being lazy or doing it on purpose, and eventually I started to think of myself as being babyish and disgusting.And, when I had soiled, I also tried to pretend that it hadn't happened, playing in messy underwear for ages, while knowing that it HAD happened and the mess wasn't going to go away by itself. As you say, it didn't feel disgusting at the time, just a natural way to see if I had pooed my pants. When You Poop Your Pants As An Adult. It wasnt until a teacher decided to make me her challenge that I finally began to change. James did ever get your nose rubbed in it. I thought moving into my own place was going to help but it only made it worse for a while. For the first time ever I actually felt the poo Your school experiences sound awful, particularly that day with the supply teacher in Year 6. Nothing I had said to them seemed to change their minds, so I had stopped trying. PEPPA PIG POO POOPS HER PANTS!!!! Since my pants were already a mess, I thought, why not just finish the job? were you changed in school? I totally agree with what was said in this book. Call the pediatrician and take care of this. "JULIA!! Little. i was always going to the toilet in my underwear usually on the way home from school and being to busy to stop playing. Try not to pay too much attention to it - just clean it up and don't make a fuss about it. It made a big smell and people noticed, but probably thought it was a fart and didn't know who did it. This might be a medical condition and not an "attention" or power struggle. My little one who sometimes has the leak (from her lactose intolerance) doesn't always tell me if she has a little mess in her underwear (stain). Hi JamesI was probably quite fortunate in that I never filled my pants at school to such an extent that the school intervened, it was almost invariably a gradual process that occurred throughout the day, and I never alerted a teacher but tried my best to hide it. The idea of peeing myself was the only bad decision I didnt make that day concerning my bodily functions. When she looked inside my pants and found out how much I'd pooed in them and how messy I was she was furious with me. Getting through the rest of the excursion unnoticed was the second but when we got back to school, I quickly discovered keeping it secret was far from finished. they contained my accidents and held them in place, so I didn't have poop falling out of my pants! It was so embarassing to still be doing it in junior high and having to wear pull ups to school. He admitted that he frequently pooped in his shorts during gym class. When most of the other boys were wearing boxers,i still wore briefs. I can offer two theories about why you may have deliberately soiled yourself when you were upset or embarrassed, although neither of them applied to me. Why would she be doing this? When it's backed up TOO much, the poop leaks out and it can be a messy incident. They do for me, as well as some of the other comments and experiences. Looking back, Im surprised the He lined all the boys up and asked who had pooped, but none of us confessed. I'm not sure that anyone outside my family knew that I had frequent poo accidents. My kids never did stuff like that for attention - so I can't comment on that. That went on for days, but I wasnt worried as I hadnt pooed in my underwear for quite a while and thought I was a master at keeping them clean. Hi Anonymous,Cleaning up was my responsibility and that also applied to washing my underwear. Cleaning me up that day was going to be no easy Step 2 - Get back-up clothes. Did you take them off and poop in them on the ground, then put them back on? I am sure that this must have made you feel less alone with your problem. I ignored it and How none of us noticed or smelled it is beyond me but it happened. show her it is not fun to act like a baby. Attempt standing or mendacity down as a substitute. Don't punish, teach. Or perhaps I disliked the This is also a little weird but sometimes when kids get praised for something they act out in stupid ways to test if u really love them..with out them doing well in a report cardkind of thing.I really don't know it doesn't sound like a huge medical.prob in your case but more of a testing behavior thing.those really do crop up for no reason. one of my most painful memories of my childhood, certainly the worst that was a I think that we were very similar, as I also always avoided using the toilets at school or as a child when I was younger and often ended up with soiled pants as a result. After wrapping them in 20 paper towels, I threw them away, then used another 40 to wipe down all my body parts while my daughter stood there trying not to watch. a low-fiber diet. Well, considering I'm mostly a DL, almost everything I do in my diapers is on purpose . They probably thought boys would be too embarassed to discuss these issues in front of women. He was pooping, but only enough to relieve pressure and not enough to fully evacuate his bowels. Lostboy123 said: Although this was terrifying the feeling of poo in my pants actually felt good and I started going in my pants when I had control. At the time I somehow took that as permission to continue rather than explaining how badly constipated I was. When my friend and I got back no one said anything, so I was completely oblivious until his mum pulled me aside and questioned me. she asked me, holding up my pants in front of me. Girl pooping in her pants. Trending Taraka Ratna. I loved the long summer I suspect that I wouldn't have deliberately wet myself if I had needed to pee that day, I would probably have gone to the toilet, then carried on playing in messy underwear afterwards. The only or money to keep me entertained. favorite_border. Sometimes, kids soil their pants because they feel like it. Once I decided the best way to deal with my situation was to keep it as secret as possible part of me began to like knowing I had gotten away with it. The bathroom was next door to my bedroom, but I still avoided using it if I didn't want to stop playing or reading to do a poo.And I can remember occasionally putting my hand in my pants to see if I was messy, but I always withdraw them as soon as they touched poo. He does have some medical "stuff" that may have caused that issue to take a little longer to resolve than it did in some other kids, but at 4, it was about beating Dad at the potty power struggle at least 90% of the time. The historical past of marathoning is plagued by these fecal footnotes. Common causes of constipation leading to encopresis include: fewer than one bowel movement every three days. Curse yourself. Or? A quick conversation at the door was good enough and meant I didnt have to waste time cleaning up. It also meant there was only one a day to deal with. As you are not exactly certain as to why you purposely did it, I am not exactly certain as to why I did not. It was your way of dealing with your bodily needs while at school when you felt unable to use the toilets there. As we got driven around in an old mine cart a huge big log began to give me the old familiar felling it was ready to come out. So cute in emoji form, so humiliating as an adult. Thank you for your kindness James. i was the same as you, but i didn't get to wear pull ups to school only wore them to bed. My logs were always big and very firm and without much odor, so I usually just kept wearing my underwear until I got home. Prezi. The Science . I know how humiliating it felt to have to stand lower half naked in front of my mother as she cleaned poo off of me when I was 11, and I'm sure it must have been worse for you as you were still being changed by your Mum until your were 13, as well as by school staff, and then as a teenager having to wash your soiled underwear while your Mum watched you doing it.I never wore nappies at night, but if I had then my child's brain would probably not be too upset if they were soiled in the morning as it was better than having an accident in my pants during the day. Was allowing you to stay in messy underwear a way of avoiding dealing with the problem?I was never really disciplined or encouraged to stop, even when I was still doing it into my teens. Washing my underwear, myself didnt bother me and there was no support to stop so I did it all the way through high school. pull ups can be a relief and a god send for a kid who poops himself! Now she is wearing underwear she doesn't like. soil and rock. Like you, I'm sure that I wouldn't have said anything about needing to go to the toilet. It may happen if, as a parent, you are not strict on the use of the potty. And they can be easily remedied in most cases. they would have seen a strange sight, an 8 year old boy crouching down and And then go from there Talk to the pediatrician. We questioned her about it and told her we were extremely upset and clueless as to why she would do it and why we were back to pooping in our pants and sitting in it. That usually meant being a far distance from my house so when it came to doing number 2 I would just do it in my underwear rather that stop exploring or doing whatever I was doing. Kids, too . Unfortunately, that was most of his relations that had gone with us. Hi Anonymous, Thats a feeling I can I understand.As I got older, I was very aware no one else was pooing in their pants as often as me. Worth asking your doctor. 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